The pastors at our church are reading “The Reformed Pastor” by Richard Baxter. It’s a book that’s been very helpful to our church over the years and we thought it was time to re-read it together, taking it slow. This morning I read:
Blockquote They will give you leave to preach against their sins, and to talk as much as you will for godliness in the pulpit, if you will but let them alone afterwards, and be friendly and merry with them when you have done, and talk as they do, and live as they, and be indifferent with them in your conversation. For they take the pulpit to be but a stage; a place where preachers must show themselves, and play their parts; where you have liberty for an hour to say what you list; and what you say they regard not, if you show them not, by saying it personally to their faces, that you were in good earnest, and did indeed mean them (85).
My goodness does that bloody my nose and tear my guts. I am willing and have said “personally to their faces” what I’ve said in the pulpit but not as I should. I find that if I trust a man (or woman) and his love for me, I’m willing to rebuke. I find that I’m much more willing to do so in the context of a pre-arranged meeting where I’ve had time to prepare and know what I’m going to say beforehand.
I am often reluctant to do so with those I distrust, with those whose opinion I fear more than is right, or in situations where I see something in real time and so should say something but most often do not.
I thought this topic would be helpful. What has been helpful to you in overcoming your fear of man and so be more willing to make not the pulpit but a stage?