Without spending too much of your time with background, anyone have any resources, quotes, etc. on the right order of the sacraments and denying communion to those who profess Christ but remain unbaptized?
I realize this is somewhat scandalous. Our church is filled with godly folks but we’ve lacked much thoughtfulness and faithfulness in our practice for decades. Our church is an independent, baptistic church holding losely to reformed doctrine but lacking teaching and faithful practice regarding the sacraments. Some years ago we began to address our failures. We’ve prioritized those practices that are most important and been working our way patiently reforming our practice. For instace, when I first came to the church there was no fencing of the table whatsoever. We’re righting the ship by God’s grace but moving patiently so as to not create unnecessary conflict and division. God has been kind.
Our elders have begun to discuss the issue of some of our beloved folks taking communion while remaining unbaptized, particularly some of the children of our members. We do fence the table by denying it to children too young to either confess faith or examine themselves, we warn unbelievers and those who confess Christ but remain in sin against Scripture and conscience are not to partake, and we discipline the unrepentant in private by sometimes denying them the Lord’s table (we have one such case currently).
But, we’ve been unfaithful in fencing the table for those who are not yet baptized. We’ve a long-standing thoughtless practice of communing children, and some adults, who haven’t been baptized. Any help you could provide in explanations of why this should be so, quotes, resources, etc. would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.