Thanks for this post and the entertainment post. I have been reading this with great interest, because I have struggled with the same issue for a long time. From the entertainment post, I have vacillated between almost no entertainment to letting some entertainment coming in (begrudgingly). In that sense, I have in many ways appreciated @nathanalberson podcast on the movies. It has at least help with some dialog with my older children to address how to view entertainment from a Christian perspective. It’s not a perfect system, because, as mentioned before, modern entertainment is so corrupt and vile. I do appreciate that someone is doing this podcast, and they are a lone voice.
From a parenting perspective, I want to present a world that appreciates what God has made, including technology and entertainment, to my children, thinking that it is possible to navigate the culture and holding on to the Christian faith at the same time. Looking back now, especially with adult children, I have come to realize how hard it is, and I think that the times when I have been a hardliner with respect to technology have, in fact, been things I look back and think I have done right, and the time when I have been lenient, especially with respect to entertainment, I have much to be ashamed about. I do notice that it’s true, when my kids get a smart phone, something changes regrettably. I am strict about not the phone in their own room and constantly monitoring, when I can, what they consume, and ask them hard questions (I have had bad experiences with filters. I am willing to listen if anyone has any suggestions.). But the phone has changed them, if just for the very fact that they are now listening to a broader group of kids, via chat or social media. Even if I have their pass codes, and can access the phone, something still changes. And it doesn’t matter if the kids are homeschooled. Crud is everywhere.
But total withdrawal is not an option for me. I’d have to leave my immigrant church, many 1st gen Christians who are trying to raise a Christian family for the first time. Many who came out of the modern China have a very hard time knowing what the purpose of the family is. Leaving and finding a Christian ghetto is walking away from a mission field. But it’s a constant battle for me to know where to draw the line for technology.
I have a proposal: @nathanalberson, can you please restart MSAL? The music there is such a balm to my soul in terms of the battle I face and yes, a great tool against the garbage in the entertainment world. I love singing along with the Psalms of God’s righteous judgment. My soul needs to hear that.