Jackson - this has been a problem for much longer than a lot of evangelicals know (assuming they even care). Twenty years ago I was brainstorming with several young men in their 20s who were eagerly “dating” in their own evangelical circles, looking for a wife, who were also keen to assess the prospects on their competence, and especially their willingness, to embrace a vocation as wife, mother, and home-maker. Their complaint to me, 20 years ago (!), is that the single women they encountered were already fixated on a career outside the realm of homaking.
Evetually, one young man found what he sought, but it took him about four years of diligent, frustrating searching. He deems it worth it now, but my prayers for him, my exhortations to him at the time, were for perseverance.
On the other hand, I also know of single women who would have loved to be a wife and mother. Guess what? She claimed the same! She could ot find a man who didn’t not expect his wife to be a female analog to himself as far as working in the world! This young woman finally resorted to online dating sites - and she found her husband on farmersonly.com. He is a solidly mature Christian man whose legacy culture (Christian, agrarian) inculcated in him the Biblical qualities of a woman and her vocation when married.
Looking backward, it seems to me that evangelicalism generally has embraced religious feminism to the detriment of Biblical marriages and the career of a woman as wife, mother, and homemaker. What has not happened is some form of “institutional” solution to the need for matchmaking when the Biblical vocation of women has largely been abandoned by broadly evangelical Protestant Christians.