Like some others here, one of my primary motivations to homeschool was the poor quality of education I received in public school. I was a bright boy left unchallenged by a system that specified that students of age X are placed in grade Y where they learn Z whether they already know if or not. The ethos of public education is that the child is made for the school, not that the school is made for the child. And from what I hear, it seems that the public school system in general is neglecting bright children even more so now than decades ago. Some of my colleagues at work express distress at the poor math education their children are receiving in public school and tell me I made the right decision to homeschool. Of course, there are some excellent public schools and charter schools out there, but they are not uniformly available, and there is little real interest in changing the situation.
I figured my children would likely be bright, so I decided they would receive a better education from homeschooling than from the affordable public and Christian school options. I do half of the homeschool teaching before and after my work, and my wife does the other half. I’ve been homeschooling ten years, and my oldest (a girl) is now high school age. How to teach those grades is an important issue, and it is true that many parents are not capable of doing so, but let us remember that a non-negligible number of public and Christian school teachers are also incompetent, something I know from personal experience as a child and an adult.
Although this will not be applicable to everyone, I have found that high school material is not difficult in the sense of being hard to understand. What I lack is immediate mastery, which could easily be gained by a little study, but I don’t have the time to do so for the entire scope of topics. What I have discovered, however, is that at this age my daughter mostly learns on her own. She works through a very challenging math curriculum as well as science textbooks (sometimes college level), doing the problems and then checking her answers from teacher editions of the textbooks that I obtained. My role is to keep my daughter on track and help her with those few things that she still doesn’t understand after looking at the answers. My daughter’s chief frustration is that high school and introductory college textbooks explain the what but not the why. The high school teachers we know are unable to help her with this, so I tell my daughter that unless it concerns physics or math, she must wait for college and then ask the professors.
I agree that it is good for children to be sometimes taught and under the authority of adults other than parents, so I have had my daughter take science classes with lab from a local homeschooling dad, and as far as I can tell, the classes and lab component are better than what I received back in high school. My daughter already knows the subject matter, but she likes the experiments, which I cannot provide, and I see it as a good opportunity for her to get classroom experience with other kids.
Circling back to the beginning of this comment, I will say one thing that surprised me about homeschooling is how it makes me feel as if I am living more like I was created to live. Until very recently in history, children spent their days helping parents on the farm or in the shop, so when I spend a couple hours a day teaching my children or work from home when I can, I feel like I am living closer to as my forebears did. Interacting with people of all sorts of ages, as we do in our church community, also seems a bit like village life. The modern practice of sending husband and wife to different workplaces and children to age-segregated classrooms every day seems mentally and spiritually unhealthy. Of course, schools have been around a long time, too, so I am not saying school itself is unnatural. What is unnatural is how much time children are in school – I don’t think children in prior ages spent anything close to half their waking day in school for two thirds of twelve years of their lives. Sometimes I think the big social struggle of our age is whether we will live as families in self-organized communities or whether we will live as solitary drones in a giant hive.